Saturday, September 3, 2011

To me...From me

Dear Tiffany,

I know your pain, I know how bad your heart aches, I know more than anything you want to tell your husband that he is going to be a daddy. I know you want to be the best friend, daughter, sister, grand daughter and wife you can possibly be...but it's hard to feel your best when you feel like a failure. I understand that emptiness you have in your heart and although you live a happy life with your sweet husband you still have that hole in your heart that awaits the day it's filled with a blessing from God. 

At times you forget that big picture, you forget that God trusted you with this journey...at times you feel like your being punished--but I can assure you that this will only make you and Zach stronger. It's ok to be weak at times--being weak does not make you a bad person, nor a bad wife (friend-daughter-sibling). Your dream will always defeat your reality if YOU give it a chance. Hang in there-DON'T ever give up. Cling to God, your husband and your closest support system...

Stars can't shine without darkness Tiffany! You will get through this!!


Love-Tiffany

11 comments:

Claire said...

Amen! Such a sweet post. I keep you in my prayers.

Cxx

twondra said...

Love you sweetie! You're stronger than you think you are.

amiracle4us said...

Wonderfully put...

LC said...

We HAVE to keep communicating with ourselves and keep the faith. I think so many of us truly understand the feelings you are having. Hang on to hope honey.

Holly said...

You are a very strong and amazing person. Keep hanging on to God and when that day comes it will be more special then ever thought possible. Hang in their girly...Praying for you.

Elyse said...

You show so much grace in God's plan for you. You will be a terrific mommy one day. Keep your head up. <3

Ania said...

Hi Tiffany,
I found you searching for infertility blogs. I am struggling with infertility related to PCOS, it's been a 15 month journey. Seems like we have a lot in common as far as faith and being thankful for our blessings. Thanks for helping me know I'm not alone!

Ashley said...

Couldn't have been said any better:) I loved the saying at the end and I plan on keeping that with my others to help me stay strong with infertility!

hopeful said...

i'm all teary-eyed now. this is not only a letter to yourself but to all of us! thanks!

--sidenote: the Word Verification thing below is 'momner'. Maybe that's a good sign for us :) mom-ner haha

Brant and Amanda said...

That is totally how I feel. You got it dead on.

Rachel said...

I'm sorry that you are in this valley now...

Hang in there. There will be moments when you will get "reasons" for this season of sadness. It most certainly does not make being there any better.

Hold tight to your faith and know God Loves you and he is good all the time. All the time God is good.

I can only imagine the awesome things he has planned for us. I truly believe that those who supper the most are destined for the most rewarding journey's.

((hugs))


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